From: Miss Dear

Hellos Miss Kayla,

I’m a young girl and just 17, and my boyfriend wanted me and his friends to go at his house to hang out so I was excited. When we got there, he wanted us to go to his room.. I agreed not knowing what his intention was. He wanted to have sex with me, but I refused, but for some reason, he managed to get his way through. His friends were hearing some of our conversations and I was totally embarrassed. I didn’t want his friends to laugh at me. He pushed me on his bed and started to rub me. I was helpless as I screamed for him to leave me, but he would not move from on top me. After he was done he started laughing, but I kept it a secret until now. It is really bothering me, what should I do? I don’t want my friends to laugh at me please help. Thanks

Hello Miss Dear:

I’m so sorry that happened to you. You deserve the best. No man should be allowed to force any woman into having sex against her will. I believe you were raped. You should reach out to someone, an adult, that you trust to explain this cruel venture. Perhaps, just by explaining it to someone you trust for some advise will free you. Don’t worry about your friends or his for what they have to say. If they are your real friends they won’t laugh at you. They will be there to support you.

From Baby Boy

Hello Miss Kayla,

I really like the girl that sits next to me in class; she looks at me every time and smile.

What should I do?

Dear baby boy,

The next time she looks at you, give her a smile. Girls like when guys give them the first signal. Since she’s always looking at you and smiling, she might like you too. Try bringing up a conversation, ask her stuff about herself. Maybe she might be interested. And then from there on you guys might be good friends.