Are things in the bedroom getting tasteless between married couple? Then, spice up your sex life with little help from our Editor, Miss Kayla.

 

One thing is happily clear: Women are not about to take the waning of sex lying down! They're inventing all kinds of ways to keep the good times (and good feelings) rolling. I hope my tips will help, cuz we want -- oh yes -- a little fun. Enjoy.

 

Now a day as soon as we turn the TV or look in any magazine, all we see is sex, sex, sex, and more sex. The hottest topic in magazines is about sex. But don’t let anyone fool you, sex has nothing to do with skills, it’s all about how you and your partner share that lovely experience.

 

Believe me the key to a happier sex life is communications, most often some married couples don’t discuss sex, which is horrible for a relationship. Married couple should be able to discuss sexual issues freely; they should be able to tell their partner what they enjoyed in the bed room.

 

For example, if you and your partner have been making love and you notice he or she did something that you like, or if he pulls your hair in a way that was pleasant, you should be able to say honey or (whatever name you call) I really like the stuff you did in the room last night or I like the way you pull my hair, honey you should do it often.

 

You will see if he’s shy, he will start to be comfortable and will probably start to tell you what he wants or what he enjoys.

 

Some important tips you should follow:

 

• Talk with your partner about sex. Really, make a date to sit down and go over it. Then resolve to always talk about it form then on.

 

• Check your ego at the door. If your partner makes sex suggestions and you get defensive, then you're missing the point completely. Get over it and put your partner first. You'll be glad you did.

 

• Don't strive to get "comfortable" in a relationship. If you're there, break out of it before you doom your relationship for good.

 

• Bring the excitement of seduction and the chase back into your relationship - fast. Actually schedule some hot sex dates with your partner. Really.

 

• Keep it exciting with some new sexual adventures. Try new things. Open your mind and explore the entire world of sex possibilities.

 

Lovers should learn to share fantasies with each other, maybe there’s something you wanted to do along time ago but you can come on to tell her, start to tell her now maybe she has more fantasies idea to explore too. Don’t just limit sex to the bed room; you should be able to explore the entire house after all it’s your home. Well we are getting to the juicy part, so fasten your steal belt (smile).

 

Foreplay is great. Women, especially love foreplay. Don’t just sticks to one position every night; learn to spice things up. Be creative; try different position every time you have sex. There are books out there that teach sexual positions.

 

Trying different things in the bed room is not a bad idea at all. I know in America, it is hard because when you come home from work you feel so tired, but don’t let that stop you from having a hot and passionate sex life. You can even spice up that special time whatever schedule work with you guys.

 

Send your wife or husband a sexy text message: tell him what you going to do to him when he comes home. Try to explore your partner’s body. His body should be your play ground. Men please your women. Women you do the same. Married couples should never deprive one another of sex.

 

Communication is the key to a happier sex life. Don’t be shy, cuz nobody will be watching in the bed room or wherever you guys decide to have sex. I hope this help, have a happier sex life.

 

It’s Miss Kayla

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